Who says we, the emotional creatures, live in past? We live in present, especially because we are into the habit of being judgmental. This article owes its origin to a situation I got in last evening. One of my colleagues requested me to come with her to shopping. I was not well, not in mood, too tired after the full day work and so I politely refused. She got upset. “You always have issues in accompanying me. With others you would happily go,” she burst out. There would have been at least 50 such occasions in last five years, since I have known her, that I would have accompanied her to shopping, temples, hospitals etc. But just because I refused once, it meant I have issues. Yes, this on-the-spot judgment was passed on a ‘current’ situation, which had no connection with the past. It is like “Forget what you did for me in past. What can you do for me today?” This reminds me when once I called up this friend to wish her on her birthday. “Oh my God, where have you bee